the adventures of greyhounds + tooth (the loubs)

There comes a day in every woman's life when she becomes a mother.. of beautiful Louboutin twins. For some this day has come and gone, for others it is somewhere on a distant horizon. For me, it was this weekend. I've held off for all the normal reasons:

1. I'm only 25, is it totally ridiculous to buy these for myself?
2. PS: I'm also not a Kardashian
3. I was saving this for a special purpose/occasion that I deemed worthy 

I am pleased to report the latter of the above happened. I was somehow accepted to the Harvard of the fashion world, Parson's! It is in a lot of ways a dream come true, a very significant step in the right direction. Therefore, it was time to make my steps more significant - and what better way to do that than with my new loubs, greyhounds + tooth! As a typical new mom, I became very snap happy and decided to photograph their "firsts". 

Their first night at home! Look at how regal they are on top of their new bed! Hopefully they don't keep me up!

Classic sibling rivalry, "Mom aren't I taller? I'm taller aren't I?" 

Here are my children discovering the double edged sword that is the alcoholic beverage, "Mom why do we have to live in such a boring place, when are we moving? I consumed far too many greyhounds..again.." I let them know that alcohol intake gets easier to control as you get older and learn your limits. But, there are some that never learn them, and I am more than happy to send them to a beautiful "resort" on the PCH with other like minded individuals that are often famous for their indiscretions.

I am so happy that their big brother, Awkward Face Cheetah, is adjusting so well to having the twins in the house. Nothing makes parents happier than when they see all their children getting along! 

Here is big brother Awkward Face Cheetah being protective of little sis Tooth. I overheard a sweet moment where he said, "Never date a male shoe just because he looks good and has a promising career, date him because of what's in his sole..and quit drinking so many damn greyhounds!"

Greyhounds + Tooth intermingling with some friends on their birthday! #StudsNSkulls Mama approves!

As usual there are times when my girls feel insecure and start to compare themselves to the photos in the magazines. I shared this moment with Greyhounds the other evening, "Mom, am I pretty? Do you think other people think I'm beautiful? Will I ever be in Vogue?" I gently let her know that she was physically perfect in my eyes and that I would not change a thing. But more importantly, it was how she saw herself that really mattered. That a truly beautiful shoe had nothing to do with looks, it was more about what was on the inside and how she treated the other shoes. I assured her there were all different colors of soles out there, that other people might be jealous of her redness and how she should not let that effect her. That it said more about them that it did about her.

Here my babies are congratulating me on getting into Parson's! "Mom, can we go with you to New York City??!?!"

I told them of course they could come with me.. IF they learned how to type! 

fashion says, "me too," style says, "only me"

Espadrilles: Marc Jacobs; Black Jorts: Madewell; Cardigan: Kimchi Blue; Necklace: J.Crew

Photo Location: Napa Valley, CA

All photos by: Kira Wyckoff

For apparent reasons, or none at all, people get continually hung up on the "Rules of Fashion". Which I find inconsequential, my only rule is that there are no rules. Wear what you like, wear it where you want. It's obvious when something is worn as a trend and not a form of self expression. That's not to say self expression cannot correlate with trends, but trends should never be a pillar of personal style (unless you're LADY GAGA). My style pillars:

1. HEELS: I'm 5'9", most would gawk and say how ridiculous that I wear height enhancing shoes, to those people: I like to highlight my best assets, not hide them. Chunky heels, wedges, really any sort of platform elevating footwear. The edgier the better, my current favorite are these studded espadrilles by Marc Jacobs. Patent leather and studs? Does life get any better? Maybe, but only by a small margin.
2. STUDS
3. SKULLS

you don't like the clothes I wear, how I do my hair, I don't really care..

Boyfriend Jeans: Rag & Bone; Heeled Booties: Sam & Libby; Textured Sweater: Raga; Sunglasses: Forever 21; Necklace (my own)

The older I get the more I realize how many haters I have, and how quickly I unabashedly extract myself from their 'friendship'. As someone that experiments often with their clothing/lifestyle I am no stranger to hearing negative comments masked in concern, I also forget them as quickly as I hear them. So you can judge someone, so you can be negative? Wow, how original! How boring. It's easy to criticize, it's harder to create.

For all the people that always say, "Oh that looks so good on you; but I could NEVER pull that off." Why? Why can't you pull it off? Because you're scared of what other people will think? Why else wouldn't you wear something if you think it looks good? Get over it! Get over caring what others think, I assure you not only will you happier, you'll look better. 

That's the thing about fashion I find that most people don't understand, they think it's some superficial thing based only on outward appearances. While I will concede it is largely that (lol), there's also a lot more to it. If you're confident in yourself and who you are, it's obvious, "Your clothes speak before you do". It's also evident when you're not, if you feel basic, you will look basic. At the risk of sounding INCREDIBLY cliche: In a world of basic bishes - be different. Seriously. Myself and everyone you encounter on a daily basis will thank you. XOXO

25 & Independent: Check out my bachelorette pad!

Apartment (Chateau Chic Pt. 2) Designed By: Me; Blazer/Pink Scoop Neck Tee: J.Crew; Necklace: Francesca's; Boyfriend Jeans: Rag & Bone; Strappy Sandals: Ivanka Trump; Bag: Hermes; Desk & Chair: Ethan & Allen: All Photos By: Alyssa Leong

25 trips around the sun is a big deal for me in many ways, as I'm sure it will continue to be. *~*~LIKE OMG I CAN RENT A CAR IN ALL STATES~*~*~ Not only does it mark a year of financial independence (note: the people I continue to keep in my life are there because I want them to be, not because I need them), it's also my 1 year anniversary of living in my very own apartment (Chateau Chic Pt 2)! That's right ladies & gents, I've lived by myself for a year, no roommates, no annoying messes to come home to -- and it's been nothing short of amazing. I always look at someone funny every time I hear them say: "Oh I would be terrified to live alone". The kind of look I give people that say they don't drink. Do you not like yourself, or are you afraid to be alone? Both things I would suggest looking further into. 

My obsession with skulls obviously permeates into every nook and cranny of Chateau Chic Pt. 2. Currently, I have 5 paintings, 1 pillow, 8 glasses, 1 tumbler, 1 candle, salt & pepper shakers, 6 coasters, 1 teapot, 2 teacups: all designed and dedicated to my affinity of skulls. Whenever someone comes over they either notice the skull influx right away, or not at all, perhaps they were aware of my predilection before entering. Why Skulls? There is nothing more vulnerable or intelligent than a skull. It encapsulates my favorite body part (my mind); now being a creature of the night and possessing a deep fondness for all the darker things in life may also have something to do with it.

Feels really good to be 25, feels even better to me! Cheers to 2015 being an amazing year for all XOXO

Current Favorite Denim: Boyfriend Jeans. The 'holier' the better. The perfect touch of masculine to an otherwise feminine frame/outfit. Turns out boys even like them, though they have no idea why ;) "I like it when you wear baggy pants!"